Hair

My mother has had the same hair style for an eternity. She will disagree, but sorry Mom, spikier is not a whole new do. Well, for me it really isn't the same style but more like a hair cycle. I have naturally blond (although I do highlight it some) fine hair, greasy hair. As I child my Nanny had the theory that if we kept cutting it, it would eventually grow. WRONG!!! As I have aged my hair now has a funky little wave to it also. I have a heart shaped face with more than desired chubby checks and, thanks to my dad, a double chin. Now that we have the background, my hair cycle looks like this: I cut it - usually to a chin-length bob or some trendy flippy thing. Then, I have a day where I don't shower right off the bat. Ah OH! What do I do now? Greasy, flat, short hair. If I wear a cap, I look bald. So, I put on earrings. (That is what mom would do.) So then I say to myself, self grow your hair out so you can pull it up. Now the cycle continues. My hair is now in the in-between stage. The worst of all hair stages. Bangs too short to go behind ears, layers that are too long to flip but too short for any other option. It is really hard to resist cutting at this point. So I tough it out to shoulder length when I can finally pull my hair up...but here is the catch. I don't like the way I look with my hair up. And now my hair is too long, fine and most of the time oily to bet be left down. I need professional help!